Habits Of Success

Habits Of Success

What is success to you?

Success is deciding what you really want and doing what ever it takes to achieve it.

Here are the 7 ingredients for success by Brain Tracy

  1. Peace of mind
  2. Being healthy and having energy
  3. Happy relationships
  4. Financial freedom
  5. Having worthy goals and ideals
  6. Self awareness
  7. Personal fulfillment

The three results or benefits of success are you will raise your self esteem, you will develop self respect and you will develop personal pride in who you are and what you are capable of doing.

Peak performance is a key to success so here are seven rules for peak performance

  1. Your live only gets better when you get better
  2. It doesn’t matter where you come from. What matters is where you’re going
  3. Anything worth doing is worth doing poorly at first and many times until you master the task or activity. (interesting if it’s the first time you’ve heard this) but very true.
  4. You can learn anything you need to learn to master any goal you desire. All skills are learn-able. Now isn’t that nice to know.
  5. You are only as free as your options
  6. Within every difficulty you face is the seed of an equal or greater opportunity or benefit
  7. The only limits on what you can achieve are self imposed. In other word you can achieve anything that you decide that you can

These are habits of success and if you follow/create then in your live you will succeed.

have a truly amazing day.




The Winning Attitude

You can choose to have a winning attitude or not

“Everything can be taken from a person but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” Viktor Frankl

Yes people can influence your attitude but it is up to you if they do or not.

There are lots of negitive situation that we come accross in life. If you give in to these situations, you will react and loose. On the other hand if remain objective, you will stop and think about it and respond. This is the winners choice.

There are two sides to every situation negitive and positive. This is one of the laws of the universe. The law of polarity. Everything has an opposite. hot – cold, up – down, inside -outside, negitive -positive etc

Some people have a tendance to be always negitive and these epople seem to always have bad luck and not often succeed, you may be one of then. The reason for this is a person is what they think about all day long. This is another law of the universe. The law of cause and effect(aka the law of attraction) What we think about we attract to us.

Because negitive people think about negitive things all day, they attract negitive results and bad luck. Where as positive people think about positive things and attract positive result and good luck.

It is possible to change from being a negitive person to becoming a positive one

How can we use these laws this to our advantage and develope a positive attitude?

Lets take your job as an example. You spend a good part of your life at work (while most people do) Some bosses are good some are not. Lets say your boss is grumpy, mean, and never appreciate the effort that you put into your job. Every time you encounter your boss he/she never ahs anything good to say. This can bring you down.


Here are a couple of thing for you to thinks about every time you encounter your boss:-

  • Remember this quote “I don’t care what you think or say about me I am a worth while person” by Jack Cransfield.
  • You are blessed with the opportunity to strenghten your ability to maintain a positive attitude in a negative situation

Think about these two things every time you encounter your boss and you will soon start to look forward to these encounter. You will also find that the boss will start to change his attitude as well when he see that you are always positive.

A comment my teacher made to my parents when I was at school. She said “It’s is hard to tell Robbie off because he is always smiling”

Something else I often do on a Monday morning when I get into work. I jump in the air with my arms raised above my head and yell “Yay hey it’s Monday, five day till the weekend” It’s start my Monday off on a positive note. It is also interesting to see how my work mate react.

Have a listen to Bob Proctor “The Winning Attitude” just click the picture below

Or you can click this link to get a complimentary copy of 5 PRINCIPLES for Winning THE MIND GAME, Attitude

Change your attitude to a Winning Attitude today

This is Robbie van’t Wout

have a fabulous day

Why A Life Coach or Personal Coach?

I am so excited I have got myself a personal coach or life coach.
I have never had one before so it is a new experience.
So why do we need a personal coach or life coach.
Well you probably don’t need one if you want to be like most people and live life as it comes. Reacting to what ever life throws at you. You just don ‘t need one.
I thought I didn’t need one either. But I haven’t been getting the result I want in my life.
To help answer that question you might want to consider this question “Why do athletes or sports teams have a coach?”
It is because coaches see thing from a different perspective. They see thing that the team or athlete doesn’t see because they are involved in the activity.
They are also there to give then direction, encouragement, to get them to push themselves that little but further when they would have other wise stopped. They can give tips on where things can be improved. Basically without a coach the athlete/team just would not reach the top of their game.

A personal coach is similar.
Personal coaching is about getting the very best out of someone and enabling them to make decisions that will improve their life. People have coaches for very many different reasons, some are

  •  to help move your career along faster;
  •  to feel more fulfilled at work;
  •  to improve relationships with family and partners;
  •  to learn parenting skills that benefit both the child and parent;
  •  to gain a spiritual meaning to life, or
  •  to just ‘get sorted’.

A coach is someone who will enable you to improve, motivate you and hold you accountable to your goals and enable you to grow. Some of the benefits of have a personal coach are:-

  • Time to focus on yourself and what you want to achieve.
  •  To achieve greater results in less time.
  •  Someone to help with your personal development
  •  Someone to challenge, motivate and support you.
  •  Someone to enable you to come up with a fresh approach to an old problem.
  •  A sounding board to discuss your issues and test out your ideas.
  •  Someone to hold you accountable and keep you committed.
  •  Someone to help create an action plan and support you in achieving it.
  •  Someone to provide unconditional support and praise.

Did you know that if you write down your goal you are 40% more like to reach them, if you tell someone it goes up to 60% and if you have a coach you are 95% more likely to reach them.
Do you want to achieve your goals? Then go and get yourself a coach!


The Right To Be Rich

The Right To Be Rich

The right to be rich is part of the Science Of Getting Rich

Yes it is your right to be rich. Not just a right but a mandate from the universe to be rich. Not just financially but also mentally, socially and spiritually. In fact in all areas of your lifebigstockphoto_Success_Concept_Woman_With_Lo_3346184

It doesn’t matter what you say about the virtues of being poor, The fact remains that you can’t develop to your full potential, in mind body and soul without out the use of things and things cost money. If you have no money there is not much you can do to help yourself let alone others

The object of all life is development, and everything that lives has an inalienable right to all the development it is capable of attaining.

The person who owns all they want so they can live the life they are capable of living is rich, and no one who doesn’t have plenty of money can have all they wants. Life has advanced so far and become so complicated that even the most ordinary person need a lot of wealth in order to live in a manner that even approaches completeness. Everyone naturally wants to become all that they are capable of becoming. It is just human nature to want more, we just can’t help wanting to be all we can be. Success in life is becoming what you want to be. You can only become what you want to be by using things, and you can’t have things unless you are rich enough to afford them.

abundanceThere is nothing wrong with desiring to be rich. So you can live a richer fuller more abundant life. You are not normal if you don’t desire more. Everyone dreams. You often hear them talking about what they would do if they won lotto or got an inheritance. So you see it’s quite normal.

Here is an extract from “The Science Of Getting Rich” by Wallace D Wattles

A person’s highest happiness is found in the bestowal of benefits on those he loves; love finds its most natural and spontaneous expression in giving. The individual who has nothing to give cannot fill his place as a spouse or parent, as a citizen, or as a human being. It is in the use of material things that a person finds full life for his body, develops his mind, and unfolds his soul. It is therefore of supreme importance to each individual to be rich. It is perfectly right that you should desire to be rich. If you are a normal man or woman you cannot help doing so.

It is perfectly right that you should give your best attention to the science of getting rich, for it is the noblest and most necessary of all studies. If you neglect this study, you are derelict in your duty to yourself, to God and humanity, for you can render to God and humanity no greater service than to make the most of yourself.


Here is a free PDF “The Science Of Getting Rich” by Wallace D Wattle. Just Click it

Or for the Audio Study Program “The Science Of Getting Rich”  by Bob Proctor, Jack Canfield, and Michael Beckwith. It is based on the book “The Science Of Getting Rich” byWallace D Wattles

click here

You Must Respond To Feedback Make Your Dreams Come True

Today Jack talks about how ti is important to respond to feedback if you want to reach your goals.

Often as we are working towards our goals we can get off course and become distracted. That is when feedback can help us. Listening to feed back and letting it help you get back on course can help you get closer to your goals.

There are two types of feedback, negative and positive. We all like positive feedback but negative feedback can also be helpful.

How We Respond To Feedback

There are different way we can respond to feedback

  1. Ignor it and say this is my goals and I will do it my way, I don’t need advice from anyone because they don’t know what they are talking about
  2. Get upset and take it personnally and quit. Not a good option if you want to make your dreams come true
  3. Get angry and go off at the person giving the feedback
  4. Take it it on board and make adjustment to  so you can keep moving towards your goals

So enjoy the video and make sure you use feedback to stay on course

Have a fantastic day


 You Must Respond To Feedback Make Your Dreams Come True

Take Action To Make Your Dreams Come True

The most important step to making your dreams come true is to take action. Jack Canfeild explains this in todays video.

You can have all the the knowledge, know what you really want, have written down specific goals in great detail and a date, be visualising you achieving your goals, and be doing affirmations very day. But if you don’t do anything to move you towards your goals do you think you will achieve them? Of course not. If you do nothing you get nowhere. You must take action

So why don’t poeple take action? They are afraid

  • Of what others might say
  • Of being rejected
  • they might achieve it
  • of the unknown

Fear has stopped a lot of people succeeding. Don’t let it stop you. Some can up with an acronym for fear. False Evidence Appearing Real which is often quite true.

So next time you are getting held back by fear. Feel the fear and do it anyway

enjoy the video

have an absolutely amazing day


Take Action To Make Your Dreams Come True



Visualisation To Make Your Dreams Come True

Hey How are you Doing

In these videos (yes there are 2 videos) Jack Canfield cover the importance of visualisation. It is one of the most important steps in making your dreams come true.

In the first video he demonstrates how  visualisation can help you achieve more than you expect.

If you visualise on regular basis it is proven that it can improve you results.

Jack explains how it works

In the second video He shares an example how a guy managed to change the drop-out rate for a middle school from 85% down to 15% through visualisation

He also shares his story how he made his dreams come true throught visualizing a million dollar cheque. Yes he did get a cheque for a bit over a million dollars

Are you visualizing what you want? If not why not? What have you got to loss?

Enjoy and have a awesome day


 Visualisation To Make Your Dreams Come True

If You Want Make Your Dreams Come True Set Specific Goals

Hi today we look at the next step to make your dreams come true with Jack Canfield co-author of the “Chicken Soup For The Soul” series of books.

Vague goals and objective just don’t work because they are difficult to measure or determine if you have achieved then.  Eg I want to loose weight. So you loose 1kg have you reach your goal?  or I want to be rich. What is rich? How much money do you need to be rich? I better goal would be I want to earn $243 567 by 31 December 2013. You know exactly how much and by when.

Set big goals and break them down into smaller stepping stone goals that way the big goals won’t be so overwhelming.

To Make Your Dreams Come True  It Isn’t All About Reaching Your Goals

Goal aren’t always about getting there, it is more about who you become to get there. You become someone worth being.  It is about the journey. By Achieving big goals you acheive mastery, mastery of life. If you loss what you had work towards you could achieve it again because you now have the skills to get there and it would be much easier the next time.

Most people don’t acheive mastery because they just don’t set specific goals

Enjoy the video, take notes and put it into action

Have an amazing day


PS leave a comment below or if you have any questions leave them there as well


 If You Want Make Your Dreams Come True Set Specific Goals



First You Must Decide What You Want. To Make Your Dreams Come True

Hi How are you to today. I hope you’re fantastic

In the second video of the making your dreams come true series. Jack Canfield take us throught the first Decide What You Want

I might seem obvious but a lot of people go through life and never decide what they want.

When deciding on the vision of what you want make sure you go big. It doesn’t matter how big it is because once you commit to it anything is possible. Often people don’t decide what they want because they don’t know how it is possible to achieve it because of the situation that they are in right now or because of the way they were brought up. like you can’t have this or that, that is being selfish.

The universe is full of abundance, there is enough for everyone and there is still heaps to spare.

Once you decide what you want tell others and suround your self with positive like minded people.  If people try and put you off or discourage you, thank them for there concern and move on

Enjoy the video, take note, put it into action and if you have any questions just leave in the comment below

Have a wonderful


Decide What You Want. To Make Your Dreams Come True





Making Your Dreams Come True

Hey how’s it going

Today I want to share with you a video I came across on You Tube, well a series of videos title “Making Your Dreams Come True” presented by Jack Canfield co-author of the Chicken Soup For The Soul series of books which have sold millions of copies

This is the introduction and he shares a bit about him self.

He also shared a story of a boy

When I was a high school student there was a kid in my class that moved around and lived in the back of a truck,

his dad was a trainer,and he never lived anywhere more than a couple of months.So would never same at a school  more than a couple of months.

He had this dream though, he wanted to race or breedracing horses

The teacher at the school ask the kids to write a paper on “Wwhat do you want to do when you go up”

He got very excited cuz this was a chance to really go for his dream.

So he wrote down I want to raise thorough bred racing horses, and he drew a major diagram of  two hundred acre ranch with four thousand square foot house, and a race track with sables, and offices etc

It was very exciting  and he handed it in.

He got it back a week later with an F and a note “see me after class”

So he saw the  teacher and asked “how come i got an F?”

he said “You’re a poor kid living off the back of the truck, you know what land costs in this valley? do you know what it cost for breeding stock and for stud fees? This is an unrealistic dream for a young man like you. There’s no way you could ever achieve this. And it’s my job as a teacher to make sure you’re not go to be disappointed.”

“So I want you to write a more realistic dream for yourself and i’ll give you a higher grade.”


Well he went home any talked to his dad he said ” what should I do?”

His father said “I can’t tell you what to do with your life, but I will tell you this whatever you decide is probably gonna effect the rest of the your life, so think hard about it.”

He thought, he thought, and he thought. Now after week he went back to the teacher with the exact same paper

Hhe said “You can keep the F and I’m keeping my dream”

Years later he now has

  • four thousand square foot house
  • an is two hundred for acreage
  • income was over six

The reality is this poor boy made his dreams come true.

How did he do it?

Well that’s what you are going to find out in this series


Enjoy and have a fabulous day



Making Your Dreams Come True